Sex it the way that adults play, but in the past this fun activity ahs been taken far too seriously. Then came the sex toys, an it had a bad rep for being a toll used in porn movies, this is no longer the case, these are mainstream items now, and my discovery of them came from a coffee date.
When people say to me, “let’s meet for coffee” it always makes me feel strange – why coffee? Is coffee more respectable than beer, or is this just a nicer way of saying let’s meet up and see if we might like to shag? Who knows, but today a coffee date is an acceptable way to meet strangers.
It is strange how some people touch you sometimes, but when I met Gary, we clicked immediately. Initially the coffee meeting went well and we agreed to see each other again. After a few dates, definitely not coffee dates and a rapidly growing intimacy, we started to discuss the possibility of taking our relationship to the next level, another euphemism for “sex”.
It didn’t take long for us to start talking about sex, and like the mature adults we are we discussed it in depth before we actually tried it. He was easy to speak to and I felt comfortable, he also brought up the subject of Sex toys; not something I had really got into before.
My last relationship wasn’t terribly sexual and in fact, this was why I had given up on it and allowed it to die a slow and painless death.
Gary and I had a pretty whirlwind romance and it was, and still is, filled with adventure. It is honest and open and the exploration of the world of adult play including the introduction of sex toys has actually been great fun as well as meaningful
He is definitely of the new generation of men who believe that women should be pleasured before the male partner gets his satisfaction. We had some pretty good and very funny shopping sprees.
Although I was a little shy at first and would only order these adult toys online, things have changed since I discovered adult party plan. I met and agent and hosted a function and a lot of things changed. I have made a lot of new girlfriends too and we take it in turns to host parties and stock up on sexy items.
What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!
