Sex it the way that adults play, but in the past this fun activity ahs been taken far too seriously. Then came the sex toys, an it had a bad rep for being a toll used in porn movies, this is no longer the case, these are mainstream items now, and my discovery of them came from a coffee date.
When people say to me, “let’s meet for coffee” it always makes me feel strange – why coffee? Is coffee more respectable than beer, or is this just a nicer way of saying let’s meet up and see if we might like to shag? Who knows, but today a coffee date is an acceptable way to meet strangers.
When Gary and I met on our coffee date, we immediately clicked, and I didn’t really go with an open mind, but there you have it. Soon we were actually “seeing” each other and a growing sense of intimacy started to pervade our relationship. We were definitely taking things to the next level, and pretty quickly too.
It didn’t take long for us to start talking about sex, and like the mature adults we are we discussed it in depth before we actually tried it. He was easy to speak to and I felt comfortable, he also brought up the subject of Sex toys; not something I had really got into before.
In fact it was totally boring and this was one of the reasons why I had seen fit to call it a day!
The long and short of it was that right from the start Gary and I were honest with each other and when we did get sexually active, we immediately started to explore the possibility of sex toys.
He is definitely of the new generation of men who believe that women should be pleasured before the male partner gets his satisfaction. We had some pretty good and very funny shopping sprees.
I was a bit shy in the beginning and didn’t fancy walking into a sex shop, so we shopped online. Then we discovered a new way to add to our collection. Adult party plan! I have hosted a few parties and grown a whole new circle of like-minded friends, as well as added to my collection of adult toys, lingerie, lotions potions and all kinds of goodies.
What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!
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